Guys, how did you deal with the end of a long term if you was the ONE who ended it, if the girl meant a lot to you, say after 3 years of living together, being engaged and bringing up a child for 3 years as your own and you had only just booked your wedding with her... would you be able to date someone in a matter of 5/6 weeks after you and her broke up? Or would you be able to go back to an ex from before her?
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I had been married 22 years and it ended. I went out on a few dates, but did not pursue anything for almost 2 years.
I had been together so long with my ex, that I needed to be on my own again and enjoy some of the things about being single again.
Everyone thinks they need someone and the sooner the better, however, there are a lot of good things about being single and free! I did some things that I always wanted to do... that I know I could never do if I was attached! They were some of the best times of my life.
However, I have been with my girlfriend for little more than year and there is not a day that goes by that I so glad I met her.
My advice is not to make rash decisions... everyone thinks they need someone especially after 30. The best thing you can do is take your time and find the right person... not one from your past, not the one nearest to you, but the one that makes for the best fit!0