So my fiancée and I went to his best friends wedding. While there, a friend of his came up to us and my fiancée introduced him to me and asked to be excused to go to the bathroom. While my fiancée was in the bathroom, his friend told me that I was very hot and wondered what I would look like without clothes. At that point I told him that I didn't feel comfortable with what he was saying and excused myself to go get a drink. When I went to get a drink, his friend came back to apologise and I asked him to leave me alone and suddenly he threw himself at me and kissed me. I immediately pushed him away but my fiancée saw.
Now ow he is saying that I cheated on him and wants to break the engagement up. I'm devastated because I didn't
do anything and he won't listen to me. Now I don't know what to do. He wants to break up so should i let him because I do truly love him a lot and don't want to leave him but he won't answer any of my calls and won't talk to me or anything. Any help would be great
Most Helpful Guy
Hmmmm. . . first of all you definitely did not cheat. But before figuring out what to do next, I think you need to actually figure out what the hell is happening here. There are at least 3 possibilities:
1) your fiancée's friend was a drunken douche and he kissed you, and your boyfriend misunderstood what happened and was so shocked he hasn't yet tried to figure out what really happened. If/when he realizes it, he'll see you're not at fault, his friend is an ass and all will be good
2) Same as above, only your boyfriend somehow holds you responsible and still wants out. In this case he's an ass and you should let him walk
3) Your fiancé and his friends were working together on this because your fiancé wanted out but was too chickenshit to just break things off on his own so they made up this rouse to come up with a reason to leave.0
Most Helpful Girl
I find his so-called 'Friend' Not a Friend In need nor One... Indeed. This loser is the One he should be Mad at, Not you. I find him being unfair.
Text him This here, dear, tell him to point fingers at his Fair weather friend till the end now and Not to put the blame on you who was this Innocent Bystander... Having just tip toed to the Bar to get herself a drink. Too bad he wasn't this fly on the wall so he could have seen the First... Scene with this backstabbing bud.
However, food for thought because this is just a sample of something that happened to me at my cousin's wedding. Her newly Beloved got a bit frisky and when the bride was away, he planted a huge wet One on my red lips in front of a Handful of 'Bystanders' and it got back to my cousin and from That day Forward... Bob was the good guy but I... was for Not better but for Worse in her eyes... She blamed Me.
If he is still throwing you a hissy fit and is putting you on his pay no mind list, Give him away and Begin a new Beguine of starting over and considering yourself lucky that you found out now just what kind of partner you have before the honeymoon started maybe a few years down the road.
Good luck. xx0