Why do you still love someone who treated you bad?

Just curious and would like people's views.
How can you still love a person who has done so many bad things to you?


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  • *sigh* because "True love" is unconditional. It's annoying & and it sucks like hell. Why? Because it can be like self torture sometimes. A person can outright, be the most evil person on the planet, but true love allows you to "Believe" and "see" the good in them. What they once were or could be "in your eyes". Love is weird and toxic. I love a girl who is "evil incarnate" like srsly evil haha... why? Cause kapakanis love is unconditional.(kill me now):

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  • Usually the person is not ' bad' all of the time. So people cling onto the good happy times that they share.. even if they are few and far between. They hold onto the thought the person may change

    Some people stay in a relationship because their confidence is so low and they have no self- esteem. They start to believe they don't deserve to be treated nice or with respect.

    Sometimes they are scared to leave because the thought of being on their own scares them. They may have the opinion of , " the better the Devil you know than the Devil you don't "

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What Guys Said 11

  • People who still love someone who treated them badly is cause they are
    insecure , afraid to give their heart to a knew person, has low self esteem
    that no one new will love them , It's not all true there is lot more fish in the sea
    to pick from yes it's sad, You can forgive someone from bad things they did
    but you never forget what they did. My theory is to move on with life and
    find someone new but don't be in a hurry ,

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  • Well, because I think the person remembers the good moments, the sweet memories that was shared with the other, even though they are no longer together, they may not even want to see each other's faces but still they would love the other person because they remember the moments when they were treated well, they remember the moments when they were utmost respected. Especially a woman will surely remember the good moments

    They don't remember the bad moments or the fights, arguments and that's the reason you will still remember the other person and will love them.

    I think this could be a reason.

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  • She isn't exactly bad to me she just doesn't care about me but love is still love no one can change it.

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  • Yeah i did this... It is wrong; we must delete these kinds of people from our heart...

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  • It would have something to do with how long we've been together or what kind of relationship we have

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What Girls Said 20

  • Love is blind. From my experience with that, in hindsight you look back on the relationship and realize you were in love with the idea you had build up of what this person was like, not them in reality. You remain in this toxic relationship because the excuses for their behaviour are endless, as you don't want to let go of this ideal vision of them.

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  • I have, but over time the love faded and I am glad because you know how you should be treated especially when someone else comes along and treats you well. You will always have a place for that someone but it depends, for example I will always have a place for my ex who yes did treat me badly, but I do remember the good times more or less. x

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  • I honestly think it's because people are still in love with the person they originally fell in love with (aka the person that your lover tries to be in the beginning in order to win you over) that they become blind to the fact that the person is no longer who they thought they were.

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  • It's because were too engrossed in our ideal love that it's difficult to break up. Besides we want to give him a chance so he can make up for his mistakes and see where he goes wrong

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  • I ask myself that every day. My best friend treats me like shit a lot, such as right now, but I can't hate him. :/ Same with my dad.

    I don't know why I still love them, but I just can't find it in my heart to truly hate them.

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