He goes In periods of not talking to me or ignoring me then when I'm about to give up and move on then he contacts me again. One period of time when I wasn't talking to him he even sent his friend to start hanging out with me to watch over me for him.
This time I'm ignoring him I'm trying to play hard to get to see if he will contact me but I think he caught on and is doing the same and now I think he's trying to trick me into contacting him.
It's fine when we're together it feels normal just like it always did and we act just like we did when we were dating.
I'm just soo confused I know there has to be a deeper reason why he does this I just can't figure out what the purpose is and why?
Most Helpful Guy
Sorry it's late here, fell asleep lol.
Unless an ex believes the relationship will be different/better than what he/she walked away from, they see no point in getting back together.
Vague statements, conflicting signals and shifting positions often get many people so stressed out that they start acting in counter-productive ways. Men and women who are better able to detect (sometimes it’s”just your gut instinct), the inconsistent or contradicting information or signals from an ex and use that to elicit cooperation have a better chance of turning things around.
This is by Love Dr. yangy I kept it in a notes file on my iPhone for some time, it helped me and I think it will help you too. I see you "love" your ex and want him back. It will not be easy at the current stage you seem to be at, but it can be done :).1
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Most Helpful Girl
Just because two people Breakup doesn't mean they can't and don't Makeup and that it's Goodbye, my love forever. And with an "EX" who Still Marks an X in his own softie spot here, dear, there is usually motive in mind when it comes time time down the love line When... He goes in periods of not talking to me or ignoring me...
You both share some "His and Her" history together and along with this, he is also Missing the Kissing as well, I can tell. He may want you in his life without all of the strife but Not as two birds of a feather who stick together all of the time. He finds things comfy and cozy of being his own free bird, to do as he wants and whenever it is Convenient to even paint the town red with you if he wants to.
He is this on and off faucet and as long as you both are In this together, you will be in what I call a "Full circle pattern," where it always comes full circle back to the "Way we were" and Nothing ventured, nothing gained and just a same ol story of who is willing to give in or who is Not willing to stand on ceremonies.
Good luck. xx0
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