Most Helpful Guy
Okay, so he broke up with you but is still treating you like his girlfriend? as if he is still in a relationship with you? I don't understand what he wants? does he want you back? has he spoken to you about that? from your post it doesn't look like that?
Okay you mentioned about open relationship? who proposed that him or you? and you accepted it? was he okay with that if you had proposed it? I don't understand open relationship means you are free to do what you want, you can even have a sexual relationship but with the consent of your partner/boyfriend/lover whatever the term may be but for that you need to be in a relationship with your boyfriend, in your case you both are not even together so how is the term open relationship applicable to you both? I don't understand it's confusing, you said you both broke up 2 months ago, so that you are single, so logically speaking the term open relationship doesn't apply to you or to him for that matter. You are free to explore your options in any way you want too. It's confusing, I don't understand what does he want from you?
Please go ahead and correct if I have misunderstood something. Whatever it may be, whether he is your boyfriend or ex-boyfriend he is not treating you right, that's for sure.
Most Helpful Girl
Oh my goodness this is exactly me girl, I dated this guy for a month for fun and yeah I was younger then he cheated on me and well I left him just to text him back two or three days after saying I missed him, we became "fwb" as he said and now I have the exact same problem with him. Honestly I'm bad at advice but I can't let this one slide cos you're really hurt and I feel you. Just try to talk with him about it and even if you guys don't end up resolving it just remember that it's just one guy you'll get over him I promise. It's not your fault that you got attached and wanted him back but the way he's treating you now isn't acceptable. You guys might want to take time off or consider being just friends and setting some boundaries. Also, don't be afraid to call the shots, if he wants you to still be in his life as a friend then he will understand if not screw him. Take care darling.