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Perhaps she is Not ready here, dear, to Change Anything right now until she is Sure that with the Other Tweetie birds Looking, that the Both of you are truly Not this Item anymore. She may feel that if things would patch themselves up, tongues would have been wagging to the 'Changed her relationship status,' she would have had to Explain That and Then... Why you and her got back together as two birds of a feather after the Spit split.
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