I've been having some issues with a guy I really like. If you check my previous posts you'll get what has been going on with us. It has been some time since I talked to him and I'm still hurting. It sucks that he has someone new and is so happy (that's what he told me when he called me only to brag to me about her) and I don't have anyone new. I haven't been approched by any guys and the online dating scene is just a bunch of slime balls that want to hook up. I don't want to feel like this anymore and I want to get over it and never think about him again. How do you REALLY get over someone you really cared about and hurt you? Why is it that the people use others and treat them like crap get to be happy?
Most Helpful Guy
From the story it seems like he want you to hurt. Him calling you to let you know how good things are going is a way for to try to get over you. Things I did to get over someone was exercise and play basketball. Those the things that help me keep my mind off that person.
So whatever it is that you like to do, you should do it. Take time out and love yourself by doing things for you.
So many guys make the mistake to move into a new relationship really fast to get over a person. Let him make the mistake and block all contacts with him and move on.0
Most Helpful Girl
He phoned you to brag? He sounds pathetic lol. Listen, it's really as simple as he doesn't deserve all the power you give him, to control your emotions.
Any time you start to feel anxious or upset, let the feeling go... don't bottle it up, let it go. Do something else with your time, speak to a friend, read your book. Don't waste any energy on someone who isn't worthy of it. Simple :)
One day, it won't hurt as much, and a week later; even less- and so on, until he's just a distant memory- but you have to allow yourself to let the shit go!0