Most Helpful Girl
I take this as You were Expecting a Virgin here, dear, Not Expecting her to have 'Done the dirty' with Anyone, not even an "EX" who along with your Now "EX," doesn't exactly Mark an X in your own softie spot.
If you want an 'Angel,' good luck in finding one. However, if you see what she has done in the past that was no blast for you and lit your fury fire, I suggest that you keep her now at arm's length and out of your own harm's way because together, this relationship will never be healthy, just go down a bad beaten path and end up a War of the Roses every time.
It's very hard today to find a St. Ann, and if you think you can, Good luck.
I believe perhaps if you had gotten to really know her and cared enough about her, None of this would have mattered because you would have Entered into 'Unconditional' Heaven with her.
Good luck. xx
Most Helpful Guy
I think you overreacted a bit. I mean you two were living together and because of one sex act (I'm presuming a rimjob) you dumped her?
I mean I get that it may be a big turn off to you, but it's not like she's tainted. I'd be shocked to learn my wife (again assuming you're talking about a rimjob) did that but I'd probably realize that it was in her past, whether she regretted it or not, and remind myself that I love her for who she is and not one isolated and rather harmless thing in her past
BUT if it is that big of a deal to you then it's a big deal and that's your decision