Is she truly done or massively confused?
This is going 2 b kinda lengthy but i want y'all 2 get a feel of my situation. My girlfriend of 2 and a half years left me last month. Before i explain the current events i will briefly go over our history. We meet in January 5th 2013 she's was a door girl at a club. She asked for my number the next day she came over and instantly i knew she was different. She was suppose 2 move 2 San Antonio at the end of the month (she's from cali no family here she was going 2 school) after spending everyday together she decided 2 stay and b with me and help me raise my son. She moved in with me and over the course of the next 2 and a half years we had our issues with typical relationship problems. (Lying, retaliation verbal abuse etc from both parties). As we found out we were gonna have another child (her first my second) things began 2 change. I let go of some of my tendencies that were causing our fights i matured. Over the course of her pregnancy she said she felt depressed because i would go out when she was at work (she worked overnight) and when i didn't have my child. She said she felt like she was handicapped and that i wasn't there for her. Even tho i asked her if i could i probably shouldn't have as much. Fast forward we had our daughter and i thought everything was amazing. I was happy i bought an engagement ring because i wanted 2 marry her. But i began noticing she was becoming distant. We went 2 Vegas for my 25th birthday and i felt everything was amazing she knew even tho this was suppose 2 b a trip all about me i made it all about her. But i suppose i was dead wrong. she had everything planned 2 leave me. i found her outside of a guys house talking 3 hours after she got out of work i told her to go home and then when we get home she tells me she's done the next day she comes with a friend 2 get her stuff. Eventually over the month i find out she had the apartment lined up moved in with the guy i found her outside with and she had sex with him the day she left me.
(Continued) I did the dumb things immediately at first (begged cried pleaded u name it i more then likely did it) after the first week and a half i just stopped talking 2 her only interacted with her when she came over 2 see the kids. About a week ago i asked her if she even missed anything. She said yea but now she's upset at the situation she put herself in and she doesn't want to hurt her new boyfriend but doesn't want to stray him along either.
Continued) she said maybe one day we could b together again but she still needs time 2 let go of the past. (When she leaves i normally give her a simple hug but next thing i know we somewhat r holding each other arms wrapped around each other for a good minute) The next day she came over somewhat dressed up (make up was put on) but she immediately left when we called and didn't see her for a few days (because it was the weekend) that Monday she came over and i asked y did she give me false hope
For the Dumpers? How long after your relationship were you sleeping with someone new? Girl posts my boyfriend laying in bed with her, their heads very close to one another, all clothes on. Should I ghost him? Why is it okay for a guy to dump a girl because she turned fat and ugly, but not for a woman to dump a guy because he became broke? What's heartaches best medicine? Why should I try to get an ex girlfriend back when she has no respect for me, no ambitions or goals?
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