My ex and I share a son together, so I have to deal with him. He does everything to try to make me miserable. He broke up with me this Jan. and expected me to beg for him back and I did not. He makes life so difficult and I cannot communicate with him. I don't even try. Right now i am having to deal with him taking my son to the ER. My son has 2 insurances, one through me which is private and through his dad, which is medicaid. Each time he takes him, the hospital bills my insurance as opposed to both of them. It's so very frustrating that this continues to happen. I cannot even call him to ask for a copy of the bill since when he took him, he used his address and not mine. Luckily with my insurance I have a liasion who can resolve these billing issues so I am not having to deal with a huge copay. Can someone tell me how I can cope with this.
My son is 4 years old and each time he comes back from his dad's house he is filthy. I mean dirty clothes, skin has dirty, hair matted and I am just frustrated. My ex has already gotten married and he still is a jerk and I don't have anything to do with him.
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My step-mom's ex husband kept harassing her. Telling her she was a terrible mom. Calling her fat even though she's very attractive (and he's about 280lbs with no muscle). Always asking her for money.
One day he was over, because she unfortunately still has to let her son live with him. He started arguing with her. Then told my dad about how he was never getting good sex again because she's to ugly and boring and *insert more bullshit*. My dad's always stayed out of it been polite and just stood near to make sure the guy didn't get physical. I was in the living room and got a little pissed and walked in like her ex wasn't there and said something along the lines of "Hey you guys need to tone it down at night when I'm trying to get some sleep, not sure what's going on, but i'm pretty sure you're making just about the whole damn neighborhood jealous. It's getting annoying to hear 'oh god you're so big' over and over for an hour straight"
Some of the he details are probably off since it was about 5 years ago, but i distinctly remembering the ex getting real quiet, and leaving without saying another word... he was a dick.0
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My ex left me 3 months ago and we have children too, it has been a nightmare. The first 2 months were the worst and then we were spending a little time together having lunch with our girls. I thought ok maybe this would be the start to us reconcile and maybe slowly work things out. But then shortly after that he took the girls to the park and met someone. So before finding out he started seeing this girl I sent him a message saying how much I was enjoying our time together and was wanting to get therapy together and basically try and see if we can fix things. After I sent him that he sent me a message that basically said a rich mother with two kids hired him as a under cover body gaurd to protect her from her ex husband who almost killed her which in turn killed their unborn child. Then he said that as a trust exercise she asked him to go sky diving and that if he did that she had a job for him to protect her and her children in Cuba for one or two weeks. Also said that after the job was done she would pay him 1.5million dollars and that she would make it look like he won a contest of some sort. Then told me if he didn't take the money he would live a lavish life with her as her husband. With a bit of re search I found out none of this was true... Which I already knew and besides that he told his parents she was a widow... Just the other night he texted me that he wasn't doing the job as her body gaurd because he found out it was a trap and it would have killed him he then followed to offer me a friends with benifits situation saying that we would only sleep with each other. Before giving hi
A defient answer he told me the trap wasn't for him and that they needed him. Why he felt to make a such a story and still going with it instead of just telling me I meet someone and we like each other and want to date I have no clue...1