There's this girl I've been pursuing. We've gone on one date and we planned a second one, but our schedules just didn't match up. However, I've begun to realize I've been the only one initiating conversations and asking her to do things. Since realizing this, I haven't talked to her in five days and she has made no effort to contact me, It just seems if I were not to call or text her I wouldn't hear from her ever again. Is she just not interested?
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She might not be interested, but then again she might also be trying not to seem eager. The problem is when a girl is really interested in a guy they usually can't help but text/call and see what's going on. But then again you got to be a man and take charge of the situation. Just because she isn't making plans just might mean that she isn't as assertive with what she wants. YOU have to be the confident guy that can handle any situation. So text/call her and announce where you are going with her next. "Hey I choose you, this Saturday we are going on an adventure." Be direct, assertive, and confident with what you say AND do.2