My ex of 3 years did this to me. Towards the end of our relationship, I noticed that something is off. He became distant and he would have mood swings. He would make excuses for not spending time with me and then the next day he would be all lovey dovey to me. Until the next time he becomes distant again. It felt wrong and I knew he is getting bored of everything. At first I didn't want to make a big deal out of it and I kind of believed that if something has changed he would talk to me about it, like we always did in the past. But then I couldn't take it anymore and I talked to him about it, and all he would say is that everything is alright, that I have nothing to worry about, that he still loves me. So I thought maybe I'm overthinking it and let it go. And then the same thing happans again, and I mention the topic again, saying that it makes me feel uncomfortable and that he shouldn't restrain from talking to me if something is wrong, that I am here for him and that I won't judge. That I just want to know the truth. Then he tells me again that nothing is wrong and kept making excuses why he was acting the way he was. Then some months after, he just dumped me. He said he fell out of love with me and that he's been feeling like that for quite some time... What the hell?
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That is why i always believe in trusting your gut feeling. Intuition feels what your eyes can't see. If something is false then it causes doubt and confusion. Your gut told you something wasn't right , and you discovered it to be true.
All you can do is try to accept his feelings have changed. Sometimes people grow apart or their feelings change over time. for whatever reasons... known only to them.0