He has so many issues we have known each other over 10 years but been married for 5 and yet he is still unhappy no matter what i do or say. He is military and was so used to moving around every 2-3 years and now that we have settled where my family is he hates it, there is not one day that goes by where he doesn't complain about something. He tells me he wants a divorce and he wanst to move but he never does it he just continues to stay with me and argue about the same things, I love him but Im at the point where my own sanity is at stake I dont know why he is s negative he takes off his wedding ring just because and he acts all weird. I just dont know what to do anymore. anyone is a similiar situation? not to mention he has no kids I have older daughter but he won't have anything to do with her its like he hates her. We aso lost twins 3 years ago and that was hard on both of us. He will also tell me that he hates mt family
- divorceVote A
- stay married and continue to work on itVote B
Most Helpful Guy
divorce is always the last resort... but this is causing too much dividing and pain. try www.jw.org/.../# . there are some things you can try, if they fail, then at lest you'll know that you did all you could1
Most Helpful Girl
It's Quite Obvious without it Being etched in stone here, dear, your marriage of '5 years' and hopefully counting, is in Need of a little TLC of going to Marriage counseling and getting to the Bad Bottom line of what is going on here, dear.
He may have someone he is now talking to or someone and Others who he doesn't want to see tha the is hooked at the hip with a wife alone at home, and this is his own reason of the season as to Why... He denies you with his ring as this 'Thing' he is probably calling this now.
I believe he is unhappy because he feels he is in this relationship rut and doesn't know how to tell you More here. I also see that his Cold demeanor May have a lot with the loss of your babies.
Of course divorce is an option but if there is Any way to pave the love way, then try this First with some guidance and keep trying to talk as well. Go on from there, even if means Taking as Break First above Anything.
Good luck and my blessings and so very sorry for your sad loss, sweetie. xx2