Have an opinion?
Cause she wants to see if being apart is affecting you.
It's not because he wants to get back together? Then why would he have one of our mutual friends hang out with me probably to get information about me for him?
What do you think?
Yup and see how you are doing or have moved on from him
So they want me back?
Sometimes that's not always the case he maybe just making sure you are still attracted to him so if his rebound or girl he is with doesn't work he can use you as a fall back
He is not with anyone nor is looking I don't think
If he doe at have anyone he may be regretting leaving you. Hang out with home and see the vibe you get from him. If ya could I'd really iike you opinion on a few of my questions if ya could.
When we hang out we act the same way just like when we were togetherBut I'm currently not talking to him?
Then he's just wasting your time
Because he would've had direct contact with you. Guys who want someone make sure the girl knows. He sounds controlling. And that's his way of having power over you
We'll WHY Would He WANT POWERade Over ME Though?
Power*I commented on one of your posts
The most recent one?
Thanks I awnsered everyone's comments I think a min ago
No problem glad I can help. Now what do you think about my question?
He wants to keep tabs he misses you alittle. He also wants to make sure he has a go to if he knows how you feel about him and you don't of him. That gives him the power. Personal stay off or block him on social media , and disconnect from the situation. I'll turn out to be heartache for you in the end.
Really you don't think we'll ever get back together?
I'd never say never just if you do make sure to take it slow. So you don't get hurt. If he wanted to get back with you if he is a real man he wouldn't do those things he'd just go after it.
We'll he is younger than me and kinda immature
Find someone who is mature then you'll see a difference. Did you make the comment on my post about its good when they are mad at you because they still care?
Yes and I'm trying but still want him
Funny thing ironicly , I checked my email and had a email from LinkedIn about someone looked at my profile and it was my ex. Prolly has been checking my Facebook and o haven't posted anything minus a couple pics. Isn't that some shit
YeS m y ex and his family checks my Facebook. Does that mean anything?
If his fam is, then maybe he misses you and so do they. I don't get why mine after all the shit she said to me would look at my LinkedI profile cause she knows I'll see it and I talked to her yesterday and she said the same stuff I'm not changing my mind , please stop I'm not discussing this. Though she does that to grab my attention
Yeah I don't get why my ex would want to grab my attention eighter? He posts stuff on Facebook when I do
I know mine is stubborn and hates to admit when she is wrong
And I stopped posting on fb months ago when we got together I just was over the whole thing
My ex is really stubborn too but why is he doing all of this
Pride if he broke up with you he doesn't want you to know he was wrong. I'm trying to to figure out why she would do the almost same thing minus the family thing.
He Does Have a lot Of Pride. He would prevent us getting back together over his pride?
Depends on if one day he just breaks down, or he just goes away.
We'll can I help break him down and not let his pride get in the way of things
That's something that he has to do. There's nothing you can do to change that unfortunately. If he will talk to you , just be friends feel it out. See if he gives off those vibes that Match yours.
He's not :(but I can tell he wants me to contact him
Just so he can say you came running back. Pride and ego. Hell I don't know how I'm gonna handle this weekend my ex comes back tomorrow night. I'll just have to leave go somewhere I don't know
What's this weekend? I already tried to get back together with him though one time.
We still share a apartment and she's coming back from a work trip then I'm pretty sure she leaves that tUes
And what happened
Wait you guys share an apartment then why are you broken up?He told me that I don't want to get back together now. What does that mean exactly?
Means you were a second option. Ya we do we fought some according to her it was all about me. She was unhappy. The initial text explaining was that after o was diagnosed with bipolar she didn't have the will power any more. She said when things were good it was great. And now she says it's cause I'm needy and a dick.
I'm a second option? How do you get that?
Because he said he didn't want it now. Like mine wants nothing to do with me she's been very clear so unless a miracle happens I have no chance even though I'm getting help.
So what does that mean now?
it means let it go. My situation is kinda similar. I know it's hard really hard , the more we focus on it though the more likely we are missing out on something special. If they choose to come back the. That choice is yours . Some people can just forget and forgive others. Some can't depends on the situation and person. To really start over with someone you have to put all of it the fights all the bullshit behind. Unfortunately some people won't allow themselves that choice and they may be missing out. My ex wants
Nothing to do with me so she says. Maybe it's true maybe it's not cause. I've left my fair share of people and it all goes away all you leave yourself is memories, and those fade as you make new ones.
What do you mean he never wants to get back together? I forgot to tell you last time I was there he had me lay on his chest by his heart if that matters?
Will he commit to you? If not your a option. It isn't hard to manipulate people who care about you to think that they do it's the commitment that matters.
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