Okay hi this is a lot so please bear with me. I broke up with my girlfriend of a year and a half two months ago. Last summer I had the time of my life with her and we did everything together and I really didn't have any friends in high school (started dating halfway through senior year) so my only other obligation was work. College comes, were cast 3 and a half hours away and we're starting to do okay. I meet new friends and start to enjoy college. Like most college students, we like to go out on the weekends and drink. I know my limits, I've never thrown up from drinking and I would never cheat. This is where stuff got rough. Seeing as this was our first time separated, she didn't trust me and it lead to a lot of fights and an extremely rough freshmen year with me having to always leave my friends and cancel going out only to end up fighting. We broke up this summer because it was just way too toxic. Fast forward now and I've felt terrible and tried to reconcile. She talked to me and I thought it would be okay only to realize she was turning the tables on me. I saw her for the first time and we hung out with my best friend and her friend. All she did was talk about how she has 200 tinder matches (only had tinder for 2 months) and the guy friends she hangs out with. On top of that she was a bitch the whole night. Final straw came when someone called her and she said "we don't need to talk about last night, like ever again" and I just got up and left my friends house. Now here's the biggest thing I can't stand. A mutual friend of mine hit her up as a joke on Twitter and they've been texting secretly behind my back. the other night, his snap chat story has a selfie of her on it at a party. I flipped out on him, haven't talked since. I've been doing no contact and she texts me and snap chats me a lot. I can't get back together after all this. She's trying to get with my friends, told lies to her family who now hates me and tries to ruin my life. How do I move on from this?
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I had these mixed feelings after my breakup. This resulted in me still having contact, including sex with her despite breaking up. This went on for several months. And I was too wrapped up to see that I was leading her on. Trust me, if you have made a decision, stick with it brother. It will be better for both of you in the long te and will allow you to move on0