I have been split from my ex four months now, we haven't had sex at all during those four months, is that bad? We are planning on being together soon, but I know he has had sex with someone, I just want to know is it a bad thing that we haven't had sex in four months that's how long we have been broken up, will he catch feelings for someone else just cause we haven't had sex or will it be a new experience when we do come back together? is it a bad thing we have went this long? We had a bad break up and tryng to get it back together we are taking our time
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... But I know he has had sex with someone...
You Need to ask yourself More than just this Question at hand here, Dear: Is he ready again to be a couple with me?
If he has gone astray while both of you are Brokeup, of course, he became a free bird and had a free Will of his own to be his own straw boss. Now tha the May be talking and squawking of 'Being together soon,' make sure it is what You both really Want and that he doesn't go Nesting with Another while in a nest with you again.
I say this because he got a taste of the Good life with no relationship strife, and may ave liked this taste of honey.
I am going to try and give him the benefit of the doubt and not be this Doubting Thomas. If you are saying "No" right now, good for you. It shows him you are Not going to give in until you are again hooked at the hip and not some Friends with benefits Fact or Factor.
Keep an eye on things and don't let him make lame duck excuses where you find out that with 'We have went this long,' he may be having his Cake and Eating it too, while trying to get you to eat ou5 of his hand.
Good luck. xx1