OK, it's a little deeper than just that. A few months ago when I met this guy, I could tell he was interested in me because he was always so sweet and he'd jokingly say, "why are you with your bf? He sounds like a jerk". He'd tell me about his girlfriend and how he knew she wasn't the one for him and he didn't want to marry her and that she was a little crazy. He said their relationship was only physical. Which I didn't care, I didn't like him. Well lately I've started to really fall for him. Now he knows I like him.
The last time we had spoken, he told me he really liked me and seriously wanted me to leave my bf. Well I had been feeling like leaving him anyway so I did. I haven't told him yet but I'm worried that when I do, he might not necessarily want to leave his girlfriend right away. I don't want to make a fool of myself either by telling him I left my bf. He might think I just did it for him and think I'm wrapped around his finger.
So, if he doesn't leave her right away, I can assume he's not really that interested in a relationship with me? And should I mention my current status first, or let him ask me about it, and then casually say, "Oh I'm not with him anymore?"
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You can bring it up with him by saying something like Oh so my ex-bf the other day (something something) to let him know. But let me just tell you this isn't a good situation to be in as I have just went through what you just went through. It didn't work out in short. Whatever you do don't wait around for this guy. If he shows interest then all you need to tell him is Well if you want to be with me then you need to break up with your current girlfriend, otherwise I will not spend time with you because it's not fair to her or me to have to share you. Then stick with it until that happens. God I wish someone had taught me to say that 5 months ago...1