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It wasn't working out because NEITHER of you "took charge."
You know that's not very respectful to men right? To make sex a male responsibility? It's actually offensive.
This guy is just as nervous as you are, probably more actually. You can initiate sex as well. It's not his "fault" sex didn't happen and he's not less of a man for not "taking charge" which is a term i really don't think is healthy to use for sex and relationships.
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