I have social anxiety, especially in unfamiliar groups and large crowds. Today at dinner my boyfriend was insisted by his family that he take me with him to a 21st party. He said no and went on to explain why; that he once took me to a 21st and i sat alone and awkward not talking to anyone and that he and others felt sorry for me, so he would be obliged to come and talk with me and this made his night less enjoyable and that I would not enjoy myself. So therefore he would never take me to another party, let alone to someones who I don't know. I am embarrassed by what he said in front of his family and also because they were shocked that he would be so rude to me in such a setting. How should I react? I'm really upset but if I tell him this I know that it will become an argument and he will just say he was being honest because that is how I am. Our arguments tend to only be brief because I can't hold on to angry feelings and because he never takes them seriously.
Most Helpful Guy
i would dump that asshole honestly!0
Most Helpful Girl
If you Start to Stand for This here, dear, You will Always be Stooping to whatever poop he decides to Throw your way at any Given day.
Open lines of convo is One of the most important factor in any New or Old relationship. Without it, you are both dead in the water.
I find is Remarks Repulsive, rude and crude and No class, which Just went Up his *ss...
Sit him down, diplomatically, and Inform him, that if he tries this again, you will Not only Tolerate it but you will Not be around for a Family Affair for Awhile because you do not care for His... Style.
If he gets heated, think twice about Someone who Not only Disrespected you in front of the Family but could very well Continue his Path of a Problem Pattern which could turn into a Future... Problem child.
Good luck. xx1