How do I get my confidence back? His new girlfriend can do everything I couldn't? (I'm handicapped)?
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"FW: Well my situation is a bit different. I am born without both arms and I learned to do stuff with my feet. "
^oh sad to hear this... :(
but as long as u can do stuff properly...
"He was my first long term relationship, we were together for 3 years but it was a LDR. We visited each other often and then would stay at each others places for like 2, 3 weeks"
^if u visited each other then it's good... did he react badly when he noticed u were handicapped?
" We've planed on me moving there, but he dumped me 6 months ago. He didn't gave me any reason (but believe there are planty but he just doesn't want to tell me to not hurt me or whatever)."
^tbh i'm afraid wot was da main reason... :/
"Exept it wasn't that normal, I couldn't do some stuff, like: when I needed to go to the bathroom he would need to put down my panties... I think that's basically all I couldn't do, but nothing that couldn't have been fixed with some helping tools and making a custom home for me."
^i see... all those reasons u xplained above i believe lead him to a break-up i'm afraid... i believe he wanted to enjoy all those "missing" things... but he didn't say his reasons y he broke up wid u coz he was afraid about how would u react... :)
"Now he has this new girlfriend that can do all of these things and doesn't need help with anything, and I just feel so damn unworthy. "
^plz don't say this... by da fact u learnt to use yer feet to do stuff u could do wid hands doesn't make u unworthy... ;)
but unfortunately truth's... when it comes to relationships it'd be difficult to find someone... most guys would think such a relationship would be complicated for 'em... like yer X did... and break-up after some point.. :/
"I keep imagining how relieved he is now and how less complicated life it is for him now. How do I get my confidence back?"
^i noticed yer update... judgin by it u sound a REALLY confident person... u accepted yer disability and u learnt to deal wid it... most people in similar situations wouldn't i believe... so wot can u do's better forget about him... after all he's taken now... just keep on improvin yerself... :)0
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