Most Helpful Guy
What good can come from initiating contact with your ex if you really don't want to reunite?
Most Helpful Girl
You found Closure here, dear, and this is what you Needed and what God Intended.
Just because two people Breakup doesn't mean they can't and don't Makeup and that it's Goodbye, my love forever. And with an "EX" who still Marks an X in your own softie spot here, dear, there may come a time, down the fine line of time, where You... Caught myself thinking about him a lot.
Even if it is so, that you both just remain friends or just casual friends now, at least you know where you stand with a man that the test of time and 'Together 3 years' has showed you and one never Knows... he may begin to Miss the Kiss and the history you both shared.
He 'Dumped' you, it's a lot to swallow and trust issues would always play a sad and bad part. However, lessons learned sometimes can be burned if true love is truly there.
You found out that 'Harmless and enjoyable' may even be a chance for a romance someday, along with nurturing and nursing on Skype, now that you are back in Light and semi sweet touch again.
Good luck. xx