Guys, why do guys act all serious about a relationship with you one day but switch up really quick and dump you?
What Guys Said 1
It's not you, it's definitely him. Although he tells you all this stuff, his actions tell you otherwise how he really feels for you; actions does speak louder than words. In any case, he doesn't seem to know exactly what he wants; he claims he wants you and want to be with you and start a family of some sort, but then again, he would immediately change.
You also mentioned that your are independent and maybe that threatens him because like you said, he is more insecure; maybe he didn't feel much needed because you were very independent, but that shouldn't be the case.
In my opinion, the best thing for you to do is fully let go with him and not waste any more time with him. The reason I'm saying this is what if you got pregnant and he wants out? What if he hurts you again by making them empty promises and then back away again and suddenly change his views? You deserve a guy who appreciates you and respects you for who you are, and to me it's clearly not him. Good luck and I hope you find what it is you're looking for
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