i was dating this guy for about 3 months. everything was fine and we began to like each other. my ex boyfriend started texting and calling me again. like an idiot I went back to him. so me and my ex were back together for about 3 months but I didn't want to be with him anymore cause I couldn't stop thinking about the other guy I was dating. so I broke it off with my ex. and explained to the guy I was dating how I felt and that I regretted my decision and I would love it if him and I could start over. he was so cold, saying things like I had my chance with him, etc. but in the end didn't really give me a direct decision.
do you think I deserve a second chance? I mean come on I think everyone does! girls/guys have you ever been in this situation? do you think he just needs some time to think about it? I would appreciate any advice! thanks!
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Its really hard on that, you have to think, he cared about you enough to be with you and then you just said bye to go back to your ex. To me, Id think you were not fully over your ex and coming back a second time would have me feelings like I'm just a rebound or things didn't really work with him so you decided to come back.
But that could just be me, if you really want to try being with this guy again, Id suggest taking your time and perhaps show him (nothing drastic or needy mind you) that you want to be with him and perhaps in time he would see your serious and give you a 2nd chance.
You just need to remember you hurt him and he is going to be questionable of you now.0