Did you ever date or like someone, but then when it was over you seemed to not be able to completely just refresh back to the person you were before your feelings for them? Did something in you change forever? For me, it was my humor. I was a real comedian before a break-up and now, not as much... so what about you's?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes, I felt like a lost a bit of what inspired me to chase after goals and be spontaneous and travel. Its not something I could ever change back to, its a matter of adapting.0
Most Helpful Girl
Yes I did. The weekend we broke up, I didn't sleep more than a couple hours a night. I lost my appetite completely and only ate a few pretzels throughout the day. I was an absolute zombie, going through the day feeling numb and lifeless. The quote from The Hunger Games quote came to mind: "She almost stopped living when he died." My ex wasn't dead, but I did stop living.
That feeling continued for 6 months and I had actually begun to lose hope that I would ever be happy again. Melodramatic, I know, but I just knew that even if I could manage to fall in love again, it would never compare to how I felt about this boy. Like you, I was a different person after the breakup.
Luckily, he came back to me. We've now been back together for just over a year and we live together.1