I went out with this girl for about 2-3 months, we broke up. She said she had something to show me so she sent me of a manga picture she drew of me and her... she said it was our first memory and she found it funny and touching as I was falling asleep on her shoulder sat up. She said she only wanted to share this with me as this was how she came to liking me more than a friend. I didn't know what to say to it so I didn't reply until the next day in which I said to her "we were friends with benefits and nothing more".
She told me at beginning that her last relationship before me ended 3 years ago and he was abusive, she has a small dent on her forehead where her ex threw her into a door hinge and I saw faded scars on her back when she got changed.
I just wanted to say we were friends with benefits it so she didn't have any hopes of us getting back together. She didn't respond but her friend has told me she won't talk to anyone. Have I hurt her? Was I being too harsh?
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Yes, her feelings were hurt.
But I applaud you for being honest.
She'll get over the temporary hurt.
But she probably wouldn't get over you adding salt to her wound. What I mean by that is if , you were deceptive and pretended that you liked her and she found out that was never true.
That would do twice as much damage.
To everything in life comes disappointment.
She has to take that... because its a part of life.
Show your concern by messaging her.
Hopefully she'll reply back.
If she doesn't let her know you'll be there.
Let her know she's a great person but you're not at the time or place where you want anything more.0
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