Me and my boyfriend were together nine years , we had a bad break up and have been broken up four months now, it was hard to get him back to the point where he would even hold a conversation, we went out last week and everything was ok, he called the next day telling me he loved me and he wants me to learn to be humble and strong, that made me feel good but I started getting impatient again cause he didn't call a few days after that, and ruin my chances again by rushing him and questioning him, I'm sad cause he has went no contact again, do we have a chance? I have been calling him days and phone is going straight to voice mail, does he hate me, what do I need to do stop calling? Do we still have a chance? Does he just need more space? I don't know what else to do I thought four months was enough space, maybe he doesn't love me like I thought out of nine years, why do I do? So many questions? Please be honest, he says he doesn't think I have changed my nagging ways, is there another chance somewhere if I calm down?
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Could this be he is having second thoughts of getting back with you? That one date you two had was a reminder of your time together in the past.
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