I'm trying to keep it short. I don't know what I wanna hear.. nice words, a bit of hope, or just opinions.
5 year relationship, ended a month ago. Just 3 weeks after it ended he (A) Jumped into a new relationship with the ex (L) of one of his mates (C). That happened 2 weeks ago. (C) is furious about it because its something like a double betrayal for him.
About our relationship: it was all fine, we got along really good. But 4 months ago (C) introduced his girlfriend (L) and her friends to (A), all of them started hanging out, every weekend. it turned into partying every weekend and doing drugs. I told him that he's changing into negative (energy just for partying, financial problems, forgets about important stuff) and that i think it has to do with the people he's hanging out with.
He was on vacation with his friends, told me that he loves me and is looking forward to see me again (he was the first who wrote this, he was even the first who called me while he was away) but i ended it a few days after the vacation was over because i was so fed up about the whole situation of him acting so young and dumb. Before my decision He acted up because i mentioned it again how he's changing and he immediately had the feeling i would accuse him being an addict even though i didn't even say anything close to it.
I ended it and he was ok with that, said that it would be the best cause he doesn't want me to bother with his stuff.
After that he started hanging out a lot with these girls. During that time (L) and (C) splitted up too. (C) reached out to me now, told me that they're together now and some things i didn't knew before like (L) and my ex (A) buying weed together cause she has some connections and he always was the one who brought something when all of them met or (L)'s friends being all about partying, doing drugs. (C) said that him and and another friend of my ex stopped with weed cause it was nothing special to them. So the wh
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First off I'm proud of you for breaking up with him. I know it can be hard to leave someone you care about over drugs. I had to do the same before. And how it was with my ex was she started to go partying and do drugs and things so i had to leave her. Honestly the best thing you can do is talk to, maybe even flirt a bit with another guy. Don't hook up or anything just talk to help blow some steam and get your mind off things. That's what really helped me. If you have a male friend you feel comfortable talking with that's what you should do. If you don't message me and we can talk, or message me if you have any questions or need help. I'd be happy to try :)0
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