He ended up saying that he wants to work things out but that he wants to stay single for now, he doesn't want to get back into a relationship with me again just yet just in case things don't work out. He was like gosh we could end up being back in a relationship next week. But I just feel like he's telling me what I want to hear, that I'm just being strung along. When I was crying he was being really cruel and saying " love isn't everything, it's not the end of the world if you don't have someone in your life." I had a right to be upset and felt as if he wasn't been considerate of my feelings. He said he wasn't going to be with anyone else but how am I meant to know that? He's going out to a nightclub tomorrow night and I don't know how I'm going to cope knowing how drunk he will be. I know I guess I can't be mad if he does something but it will still hurt. I suffer from depression as well so this break up is just made me feel so much more down, I feel like I'm not enough for anyone. I don't know what to do, whether to just see where things go with him or try move on. I haven't contacted him since and was going to see if he contacts me..
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I understand exactly where your coming from and I don't think it's a waste of time as long as you are truly seeking the truth and want what's best for yourself. Do this for yourself but accept what you learn and be prepared to face the responsibility of your actions. As long as you do that you will do just fine. I could say many things about his behavior but know that he is obviously very confused and doesn't actually know what he wants. He needs to make a decision, or be caught forever in this cycle.