I just feel so weird right now... I just 'broke up' with my girlfriend or 10 months, but the thing is we both knew this was going to happen. Basically because of moving and school and jobs, we knew we would both be going LDR perminantly at this time. I don't think either of us think it could be any way and breaking up truly was for the best, but I still just feel... I don't know. I keep asking myself why we created this legitemate relationship and allowed ourselves to get so attached, but we knew it would end fromt he start. I think I am siding with no regrets, happy with how it all happened, but I still feel like crying or something, which I have not done in years...
Any tips to help or words of encrouragement woudl be great thanks. :)
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LDR is One of the Hardest Ones to Have and to Uphold of Any here, dear. It takes two special people to Take the time and the patience to make the Effort to Keep Everything From... Keep asking myself.
It was Obviously meant for you Both to share the trials and tribulations of this love that may or even now will not last. It may Not be Totally over because along some fine line of love, the Love may not be lost, you both may find you are Missing the Kissing and Continue trying to Act Out... Two to tango and tangle again. It's not over until the fat lady sings.
I am myself, currently in A LDR Marriage with a man from Egypt whom I left back in Cairo a few years ago. I came back to the states and with on and of again, Breakups and Makeups, it is always a Full circle problem pattern of Here today and Gone... Tomorrow with all sorts of sorrow.
If anything and it never ever does materialize again, my friend, perhaps friends til the end would be a best bet, should nothing else come out of a love that was really never meant to be but just as a Life lesson of something that many people were never lucky enough to even tell about.
You do feel Relief on one end, 'No regrets,' and on Another sad note, you feel Like... Crying or something.
Good luck. xx0