It can be years after breakup.
For me, all of my exes stayed exactly the same they were while we were together, and that's a reason I never considered getting back together because the reasons we broke up are still there. I know this because I stayed friends with most of them.
How about your exes? Are they still the same? If you don't know, do you ever wonder?
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Mine hasn't changed either. My ex left me for someone else , i was devastaed. All i could think of was how he didn't treat me so well and how he would be treating her great. I suppose i was a little jealous and felt worthless , because it appeared he had changed when he was with her.
I was so wrong! He put on his good side when he was first with her , but over time he treated her exactly how he treated me. In the end she left him for someone else.
I think it is easier for a person to change their lifestyle than to change who they are as a person. It's rare people change0