I am confused. Can anyone shed any light on this?
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Oh wow that sucks. But I know what you going through, I went through similar thing. My ex of 3 years decided to end our relationship out of the blue without giving me any reason why. He was also going through a lot and he just said that he needs to change his lifestyle. Unfortunately, I can't shed any light on this because I don't get it either. But what I can tell you is that we can't always understand things and we should just leave it be. It doesn't matter why, all that it matters is that he doesn't want you. It's not your fault it's just the way he is and that means you're not compatible. Why would you need a guy who's gonna run like a coward with his tail between his legs every time something bad happens? There's a lot more to life then what he's going through right now, if he can't handle this, then he surely couldn't handle marriage and having kids. You see someone for who they truly are when bad things happen. He needs to grow up and you need to find a true man, not a boy.
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After being together that long that's a horribly rude way to end it. Honestly sounds like he was just looking for an excuse to end it in sorry. I would just move on if I were you. No contact for a year? Really? What does he expect you to just wait around? Don't!
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