He told me that every moment since we met has been great. But since this person came back into his life 2 weeks ago he can't stop thinking of her and he was not being fair to me. He had taking some time to decide what he was going to do and that it was a hard decision to make to leave me. He said I was so good to him and a great girlfriend. I dont get if everthing was so amazing why leave? They broke up previously because she moved away and has now moved back. So two weeks of having her around again and everthing the we had is not good enough anymore? We were almost at the one year mark. Is there really another girl or is this just commiment issues?
- Should I just move on with my life?Vote A
- Should I give it time and see what happens?Vote B
Most Helpful Guy
Me made his choice. Time for you to walk away like he did.1
Most Helpful Girl
You found out a Hard sad and bad way, @lovescats, that the ghost of yesterday was still in thecozy closet, with no closure to your soul mate, who was Actually a 'Best friend,' and Now in the End... This person came back into his life 2 weeks ago...
She probably was on his mind from time to time, and with her having 'Moved away.' his thoughts of this skeleton that is rattling your chains and rattled his from a far, came back to Haunt you both and the amazing relationship you both had.
He most likely cared and respected you enough to want it to work. But being she floated back from nowhere and the carrot went dangling over his velvet nose, he fell for it and she got him back in her saddle once more. He didn't think enough of your relationship with him because she and he had more history together and go way back.
One thing I do know and that you can never trust him again. Should he ever give you a shout, tell him you have Moved on and to please take Care... It's over and you're not going to keep playing games with a back and forth deal of going down Memory lane with perhaps her again or if he decides to pick a bone with another. Even now, he is just this Fair weather friend.
Good luck. xx0