He told me that every moment since we met has been great. But since this person came back into his life 2 weeks ago he can't stop thinking of her and he was not being fair to me. He had taking some time to decide what he was going to do and that it was a hard decision to make to leave me. He said I was so good to him and a great girlfriend. I dont get if everthing was so amazing why leave? They broke up previously because she moved away and has now moved back. So two weeks of having her around again and everthing the we had is not good enough anymore? We were almost at the one year mark. Is there really another girl or is this just commiment issues?
- Should I just move on with my life?Vote A
- Should I give it time and see what happens?Vote B
Most Helpful Guy
Me made his choice. Time for you to walk away like he did.1
Most Helpful Girl
You should move on with your life.
Your ex. boyfriend's decision doesn't involve anything you have done,
so please do not blame yourself.
You could have had him floating on clouds in pure ecstasy, and he still would have left you?
Because he was never over his ex. in the first place.
Sometimes, when people aren't over their ex. they enter into relationships in hopes of thinking that existing relationship will help them get over that person quicker.
In fact, it never really does and only adds salt to the wounds.
If given the opportunity to be back with that person, they wouldn't hesitate or think twice about it.
Your ex. boyfriend pretty much used you as the rebound girl.
It may not have been intentional... but it doesn't change the fact that he did it.
He didn't give himself time to get over his ex.
He entered into the relationship never getting over her.
He may have cared about you, but he was never ready to fully love another.
His actions speak louder than his words.
I know you are hurt.
But never put your life on hold for someone... who would never do the same for you.
Carry your pride and dignity with you.
Do not blame yourself.
You didn't cause him to do this... and you didn't deserve it.
You seem like a great girl.
Any guy who has you... would be lucky!
It's too bad he was too clouded to see what he had before him.