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Try an Asian. Very low divorce rate.1
Try an Asian. Very low divorce rate.
you're doing it all wrong.
I assume what you meant is that you don't want to want to get divorced. In some countries divorce is not really legal or practically unacceptable, but what good is being in marriage in which you're totally unhappy?
People in the west tend to get divorced more often because they think they deserve to happy or at least happier than they are in a relationship. While people in other areas just tend to stick with the relationship no matter what.
There's no guarantee for a happy marriage and it's certainly not culture depended, it depends on the person so choose wisely
If you do not want to divorce... do not get married at all. Unfortunately there is no 100% guarantee of a successful marriage, no matter where the person you marry comes from.
In our individualistic, superficial, and materialistic culture the happiness and wellness of the single seem always more important that the happiness and wellness of the community (couple/family). People think they are entitled to be happy, they deserve to be happy... and they do and take whatever they need to be happy, no matter if their happiness means hurting others. It's sad. :( Also, people don't give marriage the right importance. They get married without thinking that a relationship means giving and receiving and that it requires time, effort, compromise, empathy, selfless commitment, respect, COMMUNICATION... People are unhappy in their relationship for whatever reasons (PS: The term abuse is often... abused)? Break up! Divorce! It's much easier to dump someone, turn page and search for someone new (until they become unhappy with their new partner and the story repeats itself), instead of working together to solve problems and to build a solid relationship together.
I agree with you that people (both genders!) from certain countries seem to file for divorce more easily than others... However, in this global culture bad habits are the first to be copied.
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