Basically, my boyfriend broke up with me, because once he started college again, he didn't have any spare time for me at all and it was making me very sad. I was of course very heartbroken about the break-up and still am.
We talked about the break-up and I asked him if he had feelings for me still. He said "I don't know." I asked him to explain and he said that he does care about me but he doesn't see how it will work since he's so busy. So I asked him, Do you want to be with me in the future? He said, "I think I do want to be with you."
Honestly, it's killing me, because I love him and want to be with him so badly, but I'm afraid he'll meet someone else. It's even worse, because he's so busy, he almost never talks to me, and it makes me overthink things and I start thinking he doesn't really like me that much. I don't want him to lose all feelings for me. I'm afraid I'll be waiting for him and he'll find someone else, and I'll be the only one left to cry. I just don't know what to do at this point. What do you guys think?
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It breaks my heart that you guys had to split up. I know that being away from each other can really put stress on any relationship. It is very unfortunate that your relationship had to end that way, but there is something that's bothering me about this break up.
It seems like he's keeping you on the 'hook', if you will. He wants you around but not as a commitment. Also, his 'I don't know' and 'I think I want to' makes me think that he's not sure about his feelings towards you. You don't want a guy like that! You want a man who loves you indescribably and completely, without a doubt! And to be totally honest, since he's going away to college again, he probably wants to experience college as a free, single bachelor.
It pains me to say this, but you might have to move on from him and pursue better men. It's not healthy to hold onto love and hope that he doesn't find someone else. The relationship is done, but if his feelings for you were true, he'll find his way back to you.
This is ONLY advice and you can do with it what you will.