Here i am talking about situations when you COULDNT or it was over you ability of forgiving, not that you didn't want to, or dignity didn't allow you, sometimes it is out of our hand, tell us when you felt so?
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah my middle school best friend completely ditched me and my other friends after the first week of freshman year to hang out with sohpmores so he can be a "cool" kid.
Jokes on him cause during senior year he was lonely.
It helped me realized how fucked up some people are.1
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, It has happened to me before.
This didn't happen with a lover... but someone I called a friend.
She betrayed me in every way.
Our so-called "friendship" continued for a while but because of her nature I kept my eye open.
How someone reacts after hurting you gives me a real indication of whether they truly care are not.
She wasn't remorseful.
She was non-chalant and uncaring.
Someone like this... is bound to keep betraying you.
We no longer speak.
I say, don't only look at the person's actions.
But look at how the actions effect them as well.
Are they hurt?
Are they remorseful?
Are they caring about your feelings?
If the person is distant and cold... then the trust can never be repaired no matter how hard you try.
Someone that at least shows empathy... stands a better chance (although depending on the extent of how they broke your trust, their fate could stand the same)---never to be trusted ever again.0