Seen it happen , and had a girl say to me you can do better which wasn't lie but I loved her. so if someone accepted you completely and love ya would you leave them?
Most Helpful Girl
I'll put myself in that persons shoes for a minute.
If I was someone filled with insecurity, self doubt and low self esteem then I would feel that way. If I had a guy that was my world and in my mind he is so great.
I would feel myself inferior.
In fact, the fact that I think so much of him may even heighten my insecurity because the more I look at myself,
the more I will think,
"What does he see in me?"
"I don't deserve him."
The problem isn't you... its her.
Although your love for eachother is strong, you deserve to have someone that can give you the best version of themselves.
If she stayed with you,
with an incomplete soul your relationship will never be great.
She has to work on herself.
Although it may hurt, I think she's doing the right thing.
I think you should move on with your life.
You have no choice at this point.
Most Helpful Guy
One of my exes did with me, she spent the whole time telling me how she didn't deserve me, how I was so much better, spent so much oxygen saying how I was going to leave her for a prettier girl... Thing is, I thought she was the catch and had almost no self esteem1