Most Helpful Girl
I've had several break ups before. However my last break up was with my first love. He's the first guy I truly fell in love with and he was my first for a lot. It has definitely been difficult to deal with it. I cried my eyes out for a good amount of time every night. However it's getting better and better. I've also started some dating again and it has actually helped me tons too. I had a fear I'll never find someone else again like him and now i've been able to curb that fear by seeing how many other great guys are out there
But in general break ups aren't easy and I can't just forget about the person altogether. I'd be lying if I said my last ex doesn't cross my mind ever. At night when I get into bed is when it hits me the hardest.0
Most Helpful Guy
It's always difficult in the beginning, although I never go for the rebound or line someone up to use them.
I just take the long and hard road of healing, taking short-cuts in life gets you nowhere.
From personal experience it takes you a year or two to recover and gain yourself back if you were in a long term relationship.
Everybody recovers at their own pace, I say take as much time as you need to recover, what's the rush.1