I know analyzing exes behaviours isn't wise.. but this one thing is bugging me...& i figure thoughts about him are going to come naturally & i rather work through them that surpress them... as long as i dont contact him
it was 7 month relationship he dumped me (cop out reason) & then ignored all my messages for 3 weeks (read all my messages but never responded, had never gone 2 days without taking to me before) until my mother who he was once good with convinced him to at least have a talk with me. He obliged & finally answered one of my messages by saying he would speak with me on the weekend.
i messaged him a few days later asking when exactly & he went right back to ignoring... he then messaged my mother to set it up instead of me... he even wanted her to be present but i didn't want that so i told him lets just do it over the phone instead... he seemed a little taken a back that i suggested that as if he thought i was dying to see him... which i was until i saw his attitude about speaking & realized it wasn't going to be good anyway. he then says "one call, im blocking you right after & no more messaging me" i agreed, i just wanted closure at that point.
we speak, he said he no longer loved me or felt any feelings towards me at all. 0 chance of us ever getting back together. he wanted no contcat whatsoever friendship or otherwise. it was so strange i never expected it from him & his only reaosn was "you dont listen"
3 weeks before with the intial breakup he said harsh things & when i pressed him about it he said he didn't mean it he was just saying w. e he had to to get me to stop pushing & talking to him... but this time he said he means what he is saying now... i made the mistake of crying & begging for a friendship during the call to which he refused. when it was ending i said.. so you're going to block me now? & he said he doesn't see why he needs to after this call
2 days after the call i slipped up & messaged him something i had forgotten to ask... to my surprise he called me immediately & was very helpful.