My ex and I reunited and things were going very well. I keep making mistakes, pushing boundaries and it's in turn pushing him away and I'm hurting myself. I don't want to make mistakes, I don't want to push him away, or lose him. I don't know what to do to make it better anymore. I didn't realize the extent of those boundaries and I'm just so so sorry. He told me I am frustrating him and make him out to be a bad person. I know we broke up, I know we are starting slow. Maybe I want things to go faster than they should and I don't know how to slow myself down and take a step back because of my feelings for him. I have a hard time with things not being the same as they were before as in not treating each other and boyfriend and girlfriend. It's very hard for me and I don't know why I am doing this or how to make things better.
I can't stop making mistakes with my ex. What's a girl to do?
What Guys Said 2
Try to slow down, try to act rationally instead of emotionally. You know what needs to be done, so don't wait do start doing it. Apologize to him and try your best to start over the right way. Everytime you realized that you're going beyond the boundaries, stop, get back. You don't wanna lose him again, do you? It's entirely up to you not to ruin it.1
What Girls Said 4
You Need to Talk Turkey to yourself, @Newgirl244, and tell yourself that you are going to lose him if you Continue down the problem pattern path you are going on.
This guy loves you enough Unconditionally to give you another chance at romance. But everyone has their love limits.
Go slow with his flow, nurse and nurture Any mistakes so this relationship on a roller coaster, can Begin its Beguine, of Going Smoother, no so rocky, and become healthy again.
You also have to bear in mind that next time around you may not get so lucky. Every time you want to push his buttons, stop yourself and Pull Back and Don't... Yak.
He loves you and You only and wants this to work. Be a team and Be a team member so you can get back to the Way we were with no over the boundary blur.
Good luck. xx1
I'm in the same situation as well. I love my man very much. But things have gone wrong and pushed him away from me. The only thing u can do is learn from it and make it better in the future.2
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