How can I tell if my boyfriend is getting ready to break up with me?
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He is not interested in listening to you or in spending quality time with you.
Healthy relationships are balanced, and part of that balance includes emotional intimacy and sharing. If your boyfriend no longer acts interested in what you have to say, this could indicate a big problem
And if he makes no effort to spend time with you, then he may be avoiding intimate situations. When a guy has become lonely in a relationship, he often seeks comfort in the company of other people. Consequently he may prefer to be with you only when others are around - such as at a party or a bar.
Your boyfriend makes no efforts to please you.
When a guy is checking out of a relationship, he stops putting forth effort to compromise or to be thoughtful. It's almost as if he is creating a way to force you to break up with him.
If you are on the receiving end of such treatment, you will likely be hurt and frustrated. You may start to feel like you are the only one who is working to keep the relationship. If that is the case, you may need to ask yourself what is really going on.
He seems distracted.
If your boyfriend is distracted often, then his mind is elsewhere. He may be physically present but daydreaming of being anywhere but with you. Sometimes people get distracted when they are worried, so do not jump to conclusions. But take this one in the context of everything else that is going on in your life.
He stops phoning as often.
Some guys like to ease out of a relationship, or take it back a gear. If your boyfriend stops certain routine behaviors, such as phoning each day, then he may be trying to let you down easily.
He is spending more time out with the guys.
One surefire way to know your relationship is in serious trouble is when your boyfriend starts going out a lot with the guys. He's acting like he is single. Even worse is when he starts staying out really late.
Be prepared. He may have lots of excuses. But listen to your gut instincts. When things are not adding up, there is usually a reason for that.
It's upsetting to recognize signs that your boyfriend is losing interest in you. It can indeed be heart wrenching. But if you want to live in truth, and not denial, pay attention to what is going on around you.
Btw if you see these signs it's better to talk to him about it , if not then break you with him.