OK so my boyfriend still talks to his ex. It's been well over a year since they've been dating but he still talks to her. Even though she cheated on him he still talks to her, I guess as friends (I'm hoping).
Guys would you still talk to your ex even if while you were together she cheated on you?
It really bothers me she and him still talk, but I've already told him that and he mostly talks to her online in front of me. Should I be worried at all?
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The mature thing to do is always the hardest.
That being said, in this case the mature thing to do is to never stop smiling and talking to people, even those who betray us.Why?
Because anger only generates more anger and even is it is hard, being confident and not showing we get affected by others is the perfect way to get your revenge.
Imagine you cheat on someone, you will expect that he would be hurt and angry with you..that he would stop talking and even be aggressive to you.
Now imagine that instead of that he would greet you normally with a smile like nothing happened, how would you feel?Worst than sh*t because you didn't affect him, you will think you don't matter to him :)1