So back story is me and this girl met online, she's 18 almost 19 and just started college whereas i just turned 20. We knew each other for over a year now, and had dated for 9 months.
It wasn't easy we were not as close as some but weren't super far. We would fight about seeing each other but we made out okay in the summer.
But everything has changed the last two weeks when she started school... Last week see calls me up saying she's changed. After all the talk of being there forever for each other, it takes a week for her at college to want to end it with me... She said she wants freedom... She is starting a new life.. And her new life apparently has no room for me.. Looks like my part is up...
Anyways.. it ended kind of bad last Friday, but then this Thursday she texted me saying she wanted to talk and didn't like how we ended... this was all over text, but I was completely broken down. I told her how much I needed her and all she would say is for me to move on and there's no room for me. She says she's always here for me blah... But it's not the same I know.
So last night she was drinking and was really drunk, and texted me hey and i responsed and then she said she wanted to talk on the phone... We did and it was hard, because I really need her back I feel. But she kept saying move on whatever. Don't wait for me... I've told her to enjoy her freedom, but yet she still calls
Then today she said she was sorry for texting me so drunk.. Then we texted a bit like we used to then all of a sudden she's like I gotta go.. So I said good talking to you text me any time.
I don't get it.. Why does she want to talk if she doesn't want me. Am I a back up? Why so soon if she says she wants me to forget about her?
Most Helpful Girl
Ummmmm probably back up. She may also be trying to eat her cake.
My advise tell her you don't want to be her friend. That you like her and it hurts to not be with her. Let her know if she changes her mind she may contact you. Then let her go. It's supper hard but you have to be assertive and don't give in. Trust me in a couple of months that heart won't hurt so bad and you may be on your way to a new relationship.
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Most Helpful Guy
Hmm she's playing with you and by your emotion I mean you need her but she tell you move on if she really want you to move on she won't call you or text you but she want you to make her feel that you can't live without her probably this will make her day better. Now I think it's wise to leave this girl if you want long happy relationship or relationship end with marriage. It's better to leave her unless you want her to make you angry and feel bad always up to you