She's literally my best friends, no one in the world I can be more comfortable completely being myself around, her heart is the kindest I've encountered and I think she's very beautiful. I've known her for 4 years and dated her for half a year, a whole year if counting the moment we confessed we like each other in a special way, I'm her first everything, she's not my first (huge issue in the relationship here) she's extremely jealous when she thinks of my exes, I don't even talk to or about a single one of them, but saying the word "cheerleader" literally would make her cry because my ex, her former friend, was a cheerleader when she was a teenager (8 years before I even met her), I was staying at my girl's place before having to leave the country permanently, we were both never happier. It was what I look for my whole life. A month after I left the country she actually said let's break up, because she can no longer be happy with me since "the pain outweighs the happiness" the pain being her mind making non existent connection between everything in her normal day, and my past relationship. I've tried everything including learning her native language to prove I wanna migrate to her country and work there, where she wants her future to be, also so her parents would accept me better. I literally have 0 problems with commitment and don't think of other women or even get curious. she repeats "it's impossible for this pain to go away no matter what, so we should stop" and now it's been a whole week since I accepted to let her go (she said she's staying in a relationship with me until I am convinced that she won't be happy, and she was right, after a month of this issue and her being unhappy I let her go as she asked). Can I have her back? she says she won't look for other guys for a long time too. I'm at the point where even jealous doesn't matter to me, I'm ok with her having another relationship, kiss, sex, whatever she needs. if she ends up choosing to be with me.
- Yes, just give her time and she'll be back.Vote A
- No, just let it all go, even if you know you'll never love again.Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
The problem does not come from you at all. She has some really serious jealousy issues, only her can sort herself out. What will it be like with another guy? The same as with you! I think you can have her back... But what I would not advice you to do so in time that SHE did not get herself together.
Just mve on with your life, if it is meant to be, it will be. Simple. Good luck x1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
respect her space she might actually miss your absence of her own choice, reflect & grow you'll both be the better for it.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE