We were kind of hanging out after the breakup and it was alright. Few days ago I asked him if he has a girlfriend and he said no but that he had sex with a girl from his class. I totally flipped out! And he told me that like he couldn't wait to tell me, with a huge smile on his face. I made a huge mistake by staying "friends" with him! He doesn't care about me at all. And it's all my fault because I let him treat me that way. I can't describe how awful and ashamed I feel. I'm not even sure if he is aware of how much that hurt. I told him but all he said was "Well that's your problem not mine. It doesn't matter if I have a girlfriend or not, if I have sex or not, we're not together anymore I can do what I want". Now he's gonna call me again to hang out and I'm sick of him. Just gonna ignore him. He's gonna get so pissed but I don't care anymore. I don't even want to tell him why I am ignoring him, if he has at least some brain he will know why. Am I right about doing this?
Most Helpful Guy
Your an adult you can hangout or not hangout with whomever you want.
You are wrong though. You are FRIENDS now. He is free to kiss, hug or have sex with whomever he wants and you can't be upset about it. I think you were under the impression that you was gonna get back with him and that made you mad.
This is one of the reasons why I don't deal with exes after breaking up. It's just drama in the end.0
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Most Helpful Girl
Yes, Ignore him and forget him and move on. You both are split up, no one should even know anyone's business and I feel he is a heel For... A huge smile on his face.
Of course it could have been to get you mad but who knows, who cares...
You are smart enough to know that you are the Brains of this outfit and that Friends till the ends is not going to work with this jerk.
Good luck. xx1