I am a guy who is shy and awkward around women in my real life due to which i never even had female friends. But recently i met a girl online who is around 3-4 years younger than me and lives in another city and we became good friends. She has had several relationships but is currently single. She even has many online guy friends too but has stopped chatting with them and only chats with me online (as told by her). Its been around 4 months we have been chatting.
She has even sent me many pics (decent ones). I talk to her like a good friend and am quite open unlike females in my real life with whom am shy n awkward.
She has had break up with her seious boyfriend days before we met online.
I am not looking for a girlfriend or any sort of relatioship... but i get a feeling that she has some sort of feelings for me which i totally donot want to happen. She even wants more of my time to chat.
Hence on a very small matter i have stopped chatting since few days. Now I don't know wether i have done right thing or something wrong. Have i hurt some girls emotions unknowingly?
Should i try and contact her online?
I donot want some girl to be sad and hurt due to me.
is it my fault that i started chatting with this emotional vulnerable hurt girl?
How to make things very clear to her?
I have jokingly said that she is my younger sister... to which she was very angry and said that she has NO intention of being my sister... ever...
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You both have started this nice 'Friendship' Online here, dear. And with things you may have Implid that of course Lead her to believe there may be more in store, she is going to be very vulnerable right now and wear her heart on her sleeve.
I find this rude and crude that you are now M. I. A and this is no way to Begin your own Beguine of something special that could lead to a Potential partnership down the love line. How do you think couples get together and why online? Many are looking for love in a few other places than a bar or a nearby street hangout.
Go back and save the day with this amazing girl who has feelings for you. You have cold duck feet, and if you want to have a nice friends for now, be a straight arrow and tell her in a round a bout way that she is a nice person, has a heart of gold and you are glad that you both are friends right now.
If she is smart, she will either talk more of this or just be silent as her golden goose egg tells her you want to nurse and nurture a friendship first.
Good luck. xx0
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