I'm hanging out with my ex again for the first time in 6 years. We started talking again maybe a month ago, and I'm hanging out with him again very soon. I have a boyfriend now, and I'm not going to cheat. I'm not like that. I tell him everything. The issue I'm having is, I catch myself wanting to talk to my ex a lot, and he's drunk texted me. I know, I know, it sounds like a disaster in the making. But i know my feelings will pass, I just wish I knew how he felt. Anyone can answer this question, but I'm curious as to what guys think. We lost our virginities to each other, we had a bad break up, he's drunk texted me since talking again, telling me he forgot how cute I was, and he did tell me he was mad at me for the longest time after we broke up. Should I just avoid him? I just don't want to think he has feelings for me. And I care for him, I just don't want to have sex or anything.(he seems like that kind of guy now) I'm kind of oblivious to this kind of stuff. My boyfriend tells me I'm just completely unaware when someone likes me. I know this post is all over the place, but anyone have any opinions?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes, it is indeed a disaster in the making, irrespective of whatever justifications you may want to give. Also, it's pretty obvious you still feel for your ex. Make a choice. Either stay with your current boyfriend, or break up with him to be with your ex. No middle path here, like you are trying to follow.2
Most Helpful Girl
Your boyfriend is right
Your ex obviously wants sex and you are completely clueless to it
If you have any self respect you wouldn't meet up with this guy after he drunk texted you1