After 3 years of being together, he dumped me out of the blue, never giving an explanation. I didn't know why but I know for fact that it wasn't someone else. Well I just wanted a reason and it took him months to open up and finally tell me why. He said it's because he doesn't want a relationship right now, that he can't commit and that he just wants to be single and party like crazy since his college just started (it started 3 months after the breakup). He said it's not me, that he is just fucked up in head. It was a decent conversation and I really felt relieved! I felt good again. Until just now when I heard that he is IN A RELATIONSHIP with someone else. For fuck sake, why lying? Now I'm not good anymore again.
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Not sure this is going to help or going to add more pain to your cause, but here goes: I don't think your relationship with him could have been that good in the first place. Otherwise you would have been honest with each other and he would have told you BEFORE breakup how he felt about it and that it wasn't going in the direction he had hoped or whatever. I think communication and understanding each others feelings are about the most important things in a relationship and yours clearly lacked that. So just move on and hope to find someone better.0