My boyfriend broke up with me because he lost interest in me. Our relationship lasted for over a year before it ended.
How should I be reacting to this?
(I haven't contacted him since)
I do want him back, but I don't want to appear desperate. What should I do?
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nup, I disagree with that guy saying to forget it. if its a simple case of him losing interest, you are doing exactly the right thing. give him time to miss u. Leave it about 3 weeks since you broke up. Then get ur teeth whitened or get some highlights or put on some fake tan. something subtle that he won't be able to quite put his finger on (we all know how bad guys are at noticing highlights!) But don't do a bunch of things to yourself at once, its too obvious.
Next, get dressed up with a couple of girlfriends and get them to take a really nice photo of you having fun with them. nothing over the top; the look on ur face should be one of a content, warm and relaxed girl. look right into the camera as if you are looking into his eyes. take a bunch of these photos until you have the winner. keep any guys out of this photo. just you and the girls, doing ok without him. post it on the internet where he can see it, or better still, get ur friends to post it under their account so it doesn't appear that you even know its there.
you sound intelligent and switched on. express this in ur photo. make some subtle changes to ur appearance. guys don't move on very well from an ex who makes no contact, trust me. my ex is back on the scene trying to chat with me all the time cos I did what I'm saying. it worked fairly well, but I changed my mind about wanting him back cos he turned out to be a bit of an idiot. If your ex isn't intrigued I'd be very surprised, but I'd bet my balls that someone else will be.0