She broke up with me because of things like "we don't have the same mentalities" "we are at two different stages in our life" and things like that... she seems to really be enjoying the single life... and she swears that there's no chance we ever get back together.. even 5-10 years from now.. but said I was a good boyfriend... I feel like I'm almost moved on... but everyone says.. what she's saying probably isn't true and just how she feels at the moment.. it's weird because she still calls me sometimes and things like that... so i have no idea how she feels... but when we talk she swears she can''t see herself in a relationship... sometimes I think she's serious.. then other times I think she's playing mind games just to see how I react.
others have said.. that it's a good sign that she wanted to be friends
Most Helpful Girl
Just because two people Breakup doesn't mean they can't and don't Makeup and that it's Goodbye, my love forever. And with an "EX" who still Marks an X in one another's hearts, there is usually One that may want to have fun But... Still calls me sometimes.
It sounds like she wants her cake and eat it two right now here, dear. She is this free bird who has launched herself Out in the wide open, having the time of her life with no strife, but sometimes, makes you a little piece of her person.
She doesn't want to be in a Real Relationship right now, and Lord only knows if she ever will. She has openly told you about the chemistry and with this, she may find someone some time who she shares more with down the fine line.
For now, focus on you only and lick your war wounds. In time, you may discover that you really don't Lover her and you can Begin a New Beguine, in which I Feel.. You deserve better.
Good luck. xx0
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Most Helpful Guy
This girl is fucking with your head, but maybe not intentionally. It doesn't matter what she wants. Getting back together is not a good idea and it almost never works the second time around. This isn't the end of the world.
Go meet your next future ex!0