About a week ago, my boyfriend broke up with me. It was pretty one sided and I felt completely crushed and devastated. I miss him so much, and he's coming past my house today to drop some of my stuff off. Recently, he has been talking to my best friend and saying that he's made a mistake and that he really misses me. I don't know if it's just because the breakup is fresh or if he really feels that way. I'm scared that I am expecting him to come over and tell me that he wants me back. I don't know if I want to go outside to get all of my stuff and risk being hurt if he doesn't say anything like that, or if I should avoid it completely so that I don't get hurt if he doesn't. I don't want him to think that I'm completely broken by this break up (even though I am) and I'm scared that if I don't go outside, he's going to think I'm really struggling, but I also don't want to break down in front of him. We haven't spoken much since the break up, but I miss him so much. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
go with one of your friends.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Send a friend... for sure. The friend doesn't have to explain why it is you aren't picking up the stuff, just let him or her go over and collect your stuff, period, and thank him for returning it. If they ask him how you're doing, instruct them to tell him, he is going to have to ask you himself if he wants to really know. Thus you maintain control of yourself, the situation, and your emotions and don't run the risk of being hurt. IF you truly and I do mean truly want this guy back, only you know that, but you broke up for a reason even if it was one sided. Give things at least a minute to cool down, so you can be by yourself to deal with stuff by yourself for a minute, and then if after you still need/want him in your life, then you can talk.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE